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Keeping Our Kids Safe Online

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Keeping our kids safe online: The area of kids and technology can be worrying for parents, especially if they don’t understand exactly what their children are doing online and whilst they may be aware of possible dangers to internet use, knowing what to do about it is another matter.

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Earlier this month I was invited to CIS- the Child Internet Safety Summit held at Westminster as a guest of AVG to learn more about the challenges that our children may face online and also what we as parents need to know to help protect them.

It is a fact of life that our kids will grow up with technology and have to learn how to handle it; to stay safe online and be responsible with their useage of the internet. This means in practical ways such as the amount they download and not illegally streaming movies or music but also in emotional ways such as the importance of being kind – not saying anything online that they wouldn’t say to someone’s face and having the maturity to understand what is over sharing and standing up to online peer pressure.

These are all tricky enough subjects for adults to navigate so it can be difficult to know what to tell our kids, but we have to educate ourselves so we can help them as these days our children have little separation between their online and offline lives. They are on social networks such as Instagram, Snapchat, Twitter and Facebook and they will undoubtedly learn about the next ‘new thing’ online before we know about it. They are tech savvy and know how to use the hardware and software to do what they want to do online but they don’t yet have the experience, maturity and often confidence to know what is and is not acceptable behaviour online and how to extricate themselves from a potentially sticky situation.

The aim of CIS is to help children and parents alongside caregivers and those that work with children understand about all aspects of safe internet useage and ways to avoid possible harm and also how to report it if it happens. It is not about scaremongering or frightening children – the internet is and can be a very positive and happy place to be, but with all the good comes the bad and it’s about education and awareness. The more we are aware, we can take steps to help keep our children from seeing things like pornographic images or hate content, and thus protect their view of the world for a bit longer.

Tony Anscombe speaking

Tony Anscombe, Online Security Evangelist from AVG speaking at CIS

As a blogger I’m online myself most of the time, using social platforms to promote my brand and search engines to research stories. In a meeting I had recently, the businessperson I was having coffee with exclaimed how my kids must think I’m ‘so cool’ – having all these accounts like Instagram and Twitter, just like them. It made me laugh – my kids think I’m the furthest thing from cool, but even if they don’t appreciate their mum having a following of thousands on Twitter, I do have an acute awareness of things I need to be aware of when it comes to my kids. Despite this, I learned some things at the CIS conference that I was totally uninformed about, further proving that all parents need to take steps to educate themselves about what goes on in our children’s online lives, no matter how savvy we believe we are.

AVG Technologies released new research at the event revealing the extent of children’s exposure to inappropriate content online and the conflicting views and concerns of their parents. Headline findings of the research of 2,200 UK parents include the fact that more than a third (35%) of UK children have encountered dangers online whilst at home but despite this a quarter (24%) of parents have no plans to educate their children about online risks. When asked why, 44% of parents believe their child is sensible enough to know what to avoid online, 22% think it would be too awkward to discuss and 14% just don’t think it’s necessary. This is a worrying underestimation by parents of online dangers and burying heads in the sand won’t protect our kids.

The Child Internet Safety website has resources to teach parents and children about digital security and all aspects of safety online and it also has an e-zine that is free to download. Visiting the site with your children is a good way to open up the conversation about how they use the internet and they also have tips and advice for parents split into age ranges to make it easier for us to know what advice is relevant at what time.

To help you get started with child internet safety, here are some E-safety tips for your children that they can do in minutes to protect themselves online:

  • When creating your screen name for online chat rooms, don’t include any personal information like your date of birth or last name.
  • Don’t share your password with anyone except your parents. If you use a public computer in your school or college library or similar place, make sure you log out of your account.
  • Don’t post pictures or videos online without getting your parents’ permission. Before you post anything online, stop and think whether it’s something your family will be happy to see.
  • Never agree to meet online friends unless you have your parents’ permission. Stranger danger is a rule you need to live by online as well as offline.
  • In App purchases or Online Adverts. Some adverts trick you into thinking you are getting something free or at rock bottom prices, if the deal looks too good to be true, it’s best to stay clear. In app purchases can result in huge bills, be mindful of what you are buying to enhance your apps.
  • Don’t open any downloads from people you don’t know or weren’t expecting anything from. The most common method of planting a virus on your PC or connected device is via email attachment or via a tab on social network saying ‘OMG you won’t believe what she did’.
  • Don’t be mean or insult other people online. Tell an adult if you receive something horrible online and if you are aware of a friend being bullied online then make sure you speak out and tell your parents or teacher.
  • Make sure you understand the minimum age requirement to join your chosen social network. Facebook and Twitter have a minimum user age of 13 for a reason!
  • Disclosure: AVG Technologies provided me with a free ticket to the conference and covered travel expenses.

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    Comments to Keeping Our Kids Safe Online

    • These are really great tips and one which every parent should consider. Bringing up children is so different these days, compared with what our parents had to contend with.

      Michelle 20th July 2015 5:19 pm Reply
      • Thanks Michelle – I do think that we have totally different issues than our parents had. I think we do have more opportunity to succeed these days but there is a lot more to be aware of that comes with it. Thanks for commenting.

        Nadine Hill 20th July 2015 5:40 pm Reply
    • Thanks for posting this I’m going to share it with my eldest.

      Rachel 21st July 2015 8:44 am Reply
    • I’ve bookmarked this to show to my son, as it’s an area I constantly worry about!

      Lucy Dorrington 21st July 2015 10:18 am Reply
    • Great tips there. I make sure that the boys are anonymous online and that they emails also do not have their names in

      Jen 21st July 2015 11:22 am Reply
    • I had a talk with my daughter about how it’s easy to come across as being mean online as people can’t always tell how to take what you say x

      Cass@frugalfamily 21st July 2015 3:07 pm Reply
    • The internet has come a long way since I was in my teens and even now looking back I got myself in some very sticky situations including the worst one using the old data on mobiles in the days when screens had just gone colour. It’s scary to think just how much easier it all is now. x

      Sarah Bailey 21st July 2015 11:13 pm Reply
    • I was invited to this conference too but sadly couldn’t make it. I do think that safety online is so important for all of us but especially our kids. Sounds really interest.

      Suzanne 22nd July 2015 11:05 am Reply
    • Really great post Nadine, sounds like an informative conference. I’m sure those tips will be invaluable when POD is a little bigger. Really want to ensure she’s safe online 🙂

      Charly Dove 22nd July 2015 7:25 pm Reply
    • Some good tips here – sounds like an interesting conference.

      Erica Price 23rd July 2015 11:22 am Reply
    • This sounds really interesting, and you have some great tips too. I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t concerned about internet safety especially as my boy gets bigger xx

      Michelle 23rd July 2015 8:37 pm Reply
      • It is worrying isn’t it, but I think as long as we do our best to educate ourselves about the dangers we’ll be in a better position to help our kids.

        Nadine Hill 24th July 2015 9:31 am Reply
    • A tough new area for parents to cover, thankfully mine aren’t quite old enough that I’ve had to tackle this subject yet

      Abi - Angel Eden Blog 27th July 2015 1:56 pm Reply
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